Anyone ever gets annoyed by a kids' action?

kids act like this coz his parents dont give him enough attention...better u show to him affection and attention. whenever he is around talk to him and play with him. i know coz i got a son too and little siblings. all they need is someone to hear them out.. communication gap can lead to a big problem to kids as they grow old.

I have younger sibs around his age (aged 12 & 7) and whenever they play together, they get annoyed by my cousins' attitude and refused to play with him. They say he never listens to them n all his does is talk even lounder whenever they try to input anything. Its the same with me, whenever I talk to him, he wont' let me fin my sentences, He would just talk even lounder or change topic n etc. I've tried explaining to him that it's rude to do so but he wont' listen. His parents know how he behaves but I dont' think they know what to do about it nmore.

just do reverse psychology, and one tip dont scold or sermon a kid infront of other people, they tend to be embarrass and they will do much irritable stuff...this kind of kid are intillegent and such be wasted if not properly guided...

i agree kat...kid is kid.. its for us how to teach them to be good guy in the future.

@naughty, im raising a 3y/o toddler, mind u when i go vacation last MAY of this year, i realized how much a toodler seeking for an attention to his parent...i thought playing and giving his fave toys, food is enough, ...but no...he told my mom he wants to talk to me only...coz at night i was used to read my book so i thought once we are in bed he will go to sleep. Really for 2 weeks me and my son like cat and dog. i want him to sleep coz i want to read but his kicking my book, really i dont know what to do that time. Till my mom said that my son want to talk to me he wants me to tell bed time story. That time really i realized that my son is not ordinary boy, at his age he has a sense of what's goin on in the world.

Kids now a days is too much different from our time naughty..lol

Good advice. If only I could tell that to his parents.
I'll probably get yelled by my mom for being such a busybody. lol~~ This is quite a sensitive issue in our family. We all know that his mom spoils him like crazy and gets miffed whenever the other aunts complains about him to her.
I'm just lettin out my frustration here cos I can't do anything about him.

@crystal, try to be friend with him,kids in his age need someone to talk to, i mean they know what they are doin is wrong, but since no one got a guts to stop him he will let be more a problem child in the future. make him as ur son i mean pratice ur soon to me mother feelings with him, win his feeling, show love to him, u will see the difference, he will love u more.

my nephew was a real brat at 7 yrs old, and to me still is, but anyways, my sister had to go to work and could not find a sitter, so I said I would do it.

Now get this, phone rings, and the little brat tries to tip over the book shelf, so I grab him and slap him on the arm and catch a plate that almost fell down.

Boy did my sis ever bitch at me for that, defending the brat, like he could do no wrong...grrrr

Anyways, as soon as she walked out of the house, I turned around to the brat and said," I am not your mother, be sure to remember that, I won' t let you get away with anything!"

He was a good lad all the time his mom got home, then raised hell again....which all means, is lack of discipline on behalf of the parents end!

once upon a time you are kid too....might be you are worse than him.

treat them good eventhough sometimes irritating.we cant help it kids is kids, its inocent mistakes. its for us adult to guide them. let them understand what is bad and good.

nope. was never a bad kid. =)
I luv kids. my younger sibs are kids and they can be such brats at times...but at least they know there's a limit to everything. They know when to stop when they are reprimanded. My younger cousin does not so how am I supposed to guide him when he doesn't even listen? I'm just amazed that his parents let him behave in such a fashion...

isee ok i just say my view in the situations if you can take it or not its ok for me.

When he can not hear tell his parents these things they may not yet know that he needs more direction and that he still has to learn his manners.

Where is your Aunt, if she is the one babysiting she should be with him and looking after him. It might be best if she kept him very busy.

If you know he is going to be there plan an activity to hold his attention and keep him entertained, the boy could be starved for attention.

@ gypsy
she have the right to dicipline him. her aunt trusted them that is why she leave the kid to them. its her responsibility as present person when the kid did bad...just tell the parents after .

Slap him.

Tempting but no... he'll prob rat on me to his mom.

I love my brothers kids, but i can't stand other peoples lol

kids r cute and innocent...but sometimes just there is no way to deal with them nicely...drive u crazy...

yea. they do. especially those who run around and shout in public areas like restaurants and etc. I dunno about u but I think it reflects rather badly on their parents. Out of control.

another thing is some of de kids cry like nonstopingly...

Nah you see, thats where youre wrong. They will change if they want to change, so you can try all those tricks like telling them how dissapointed you are (dont think they really care) or punish them. if they dont want to change because of you then they just wont. Doesnt reflect on the parents at all (nothing they can really do about it), depend on the kid. People wont change when others tell them to whether directly or subtly. We're rebellious in nature except for those few docile creatures. But then, those docile kids, the one with so much pent up childhood frustrations, are the one who will grow up into a self-absorb (insert whatever word pleases you)

well u should beat him.. lol.. sometimes its essential to do that. they need to be disciplined. lol.. both my parents used to do that if i erred. but today i realise they did it my best interest. lol. :P