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6/11/2009 4:00 PM "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?" (101 Comments)
- Vernie
- 45, Philippines
"HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
Almost of Us for sure encountered this kind of situation...YOU FALL IN LOVE make dreams,and promises to each other.All of a sudden the problem came in the relationship and in the end become HEARTACHE! the feeling is like a "DOOMSDAY"or "END OF THE WORLD"for the person who into this situation ! .Well for those who is not in this sItuation easy to say "WAKE UP AND MOVE ON "Well can u give an advice HOW and What is the BEST NEED TO DO of the affected person.?..to STAND AGAIN! (LOVE YOU ALL)Muaaahhhhhh!
6/14/2009 1:49 AMRe: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
Like open the window again and breath freely..look arund coz not only 1 love you...focus your life to a one thing can give u to be a better man..Yes its true its like only an injection hurts fior a while then one day u will wake up w/a smile and ready to fall in love again..Hmm good !this words helps to comfort those who are in this situation..thanks Nephilin muaaaaaaaaaah!
6/13/2009 11:31 PMRe: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
People who say move on , don't know what they are talking about, but love this vid.:)
6/14/2009 1:59 AMRe: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
Hmm yeah its true they really dont know what did they say "MOVE ON" is a very hard thing to do BUT iM VERY SURE ONLY TIME CAN HEAL the pain...and if that happened u will laugh to yourself everytime u flashback on it ,coz u understand that he/she is not worth or deserving to your love ...he!he!he!Hmmm Dukefan....Its been a long time your promised is still a promised he!he!he..love the song kissssssssssssss.
6/14/2009 2:02 AMRe: Re: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
ya know, time can heal pain, but it takes only a moment to bring it all back.....that is why some of us learn from past experiences, and some never learn.
I know just what promise you mention, still have not got one yet...lol Muwhhaa
I know just what promise you mention, still have not got one yet...lol Muwhhaa
6/14/2009 2:12 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
roll eyes??? Something fell into them???...lol Slap me , i know ya want to...lol HUGS
6/14/2009 2:20 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
No need to slap u my dear friend coz your consience will do that for me(just kidding) he!he!he..wink.
6/14/2009 2:24 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
hahaha, hope you have a great weekend my dear Vernie>:P
6/14/2009 4:41 PMRe: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
Me i sleep !!!.. so i dont need to think and no heatache cos heartache.. ;)
6/14/2009 11:24 PMRe: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
1. pray hard for strength and enlightenment
2. GET BUSY WITH PROFITABLE THINGS...when ur mind is equipped with work u wont have time to think more of him, in short convert ur sad times into cash or promotion!
3. Improve on other aspects of ur life to redeem ur self-worth...improve ur relationship with ur family, friends, church, career, beauty stuff: a daily make-over s the sweetest revenge, extra talents( ballroom dancing, target shooting, voice lesson, culinary arts etc.)
4. don't fall in love with the next man who comes along.
5. love yourself and feed your ego, so that the next time around you'll be tough enough to withstand anything.
6. avoid teleserye, melodrama and lovesongs..they will intensify ur pain..try happy/disco tunes or praise and worship songs (hillsong, michael w. smith, doen moen etc....)
7. hang out with optimistic ppl
8. get active on zorpia forum
9. add me as friend
10. don't take the last 3 options seriously :))
mwaah! just get life going as it is.....
one day you'll just discover you've moved on :D
2. GET BUSY WITH PROFITABLE THINGS...when ur mind is equipped with work u wont have time to think more of him, in short convert ur sad times into cash or promotion!
3. Improve on other aspects of ur life to redeem ur self-worth...improve ur relationship with ur family, friends, church, career, beauty stuff: a daily make-over s the sweetest revenge, extra talents( ballroom dancing, target shooting, voice lesson, culinary arts etc.)
4. don't fall in love with the next man who comes along.
5. love yourself and feed your ego, so that the next time around you'll be tough enough to withstand anything.
6. avoid teleserye, melodrama and lovesongs..they will intensify ur pain..try happy/disco tunes or praise and worship songs (hillsong, michael w. smith, doen moen etc....)
7. hang out with optimistic ppl
8. get active on zorpia forum
9. add me as friend
10. don't take the last 3 options seriously :))
mwaah! just get life going as it is.....
one day you'll just discover you've moved on :D
6/15/2009 9:31 AMRe: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
6/15/2009 10:35 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
ha ha ha ha ...i would love to chat with you
but i don't really chat coz if i will do i would have to chat with the other 260 plus in my list
i just don't have the time and d energy for that
i' m doing paperworks while online in zorpia
anyway, i do consider u a friend.
Have a nice day, Kabayan!
God bless u >:D<
but i don't really chat coz if i will do i would have to chat with the other 260 plus in my list
i just don't have the time and d energy for that
i' m doing paperworks while online in zorpia
anyway, i do consider u a friend.
Have a nice day, Kabayan!
God bless u >:D<
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10/26/2009 2:37 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re:
kenji
40, Saitama, Japan
yes
10/25/2009 10:29 AMRe:
@vernie, accept the fact that were not meant for each other, be quiet, refelction, do all the work i got, continue what im doin in daily life minus him ofcourse..let cry at night..just go with the flow...till one day i woke-up,no more pain anymore its just memory of yesterday...
dont force urself to forget coz the more u want to forget the more its painful and cant be forgotten...just go with reality..then one day u will see its not there anymore..
dont force urself to forget coz the more u want to forget the more its painful and cant be forgotten...just go with reality..then one day u will see its not there anymore..
10/26/2009 3:15 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re:
@vernie, i knew it...lol...with this kind of pic no wonder guys do cry...
what can we do we girls are such beautiful and charming..lol
what can we do we girls are such beautiful and charming..lol
10/26/2009 8:37 PMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re:
ha!ha!ha
11/4/2009 9:02 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re:
xia
25, China
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6/13/2009 12:14 AMRe: Heartache
gerryj
53, Port Alberni, British Columbia, Canada
Hi Vernie: I have found that one thing you can do is to have no contact with the person you broke up with. No phone calls and if they want to want to see you for whatever reason, say no. The other thing is to recognize that you probably will be single for a while. It takes time to heal the heart and one day you will realize you are ready for love again. Luv u too Muaaaah!
6/13/2009 7:09 AMRe: Re: Heartache
Hmm i did that also for 8 eight years no contact to my husband when we saw each other Im sure to myself i move on already.And after knowing that i signed here on zorpia. to make a friend or maybe more he!he!he Thanks for the advice dear friend Gerryj.Hugs for you.
6/13/2009 8:41 AMRe:
mmm-time heals nothing more cause every person differ-JUST MOVE ON SAYING surely isnt enough to some-but they have to bear sorrow and sadness for a while. anyways being busy with other stuff and having a good out going times-heals to some
6/13/2009 2:46 PMRe:
willington
28, Nigeria
Just understand dat two of u r not mean to be and let go of it.Its all for a little while u will see ur self fallin in love again.Wen hurt by some1 never rush into another bcos as u rush is still d way u will run out of it.
6/13/2009 8:56 PMRe: Re:
Hmmm mean let him go coz that was happened coz you are not meant for each other and someday u wait and u will meet a better one for you.God will not give Us Our Failure in Life if we cant carry it and God will give us gift more than we effected if we passed that failure of life.Thanks for coming Willington kiss.
6/14/2009 3:26 AMRe:
Onnie
53, Hurlock, Maryland, United States
Just tell me the problems and your innermost feelings about it. We will discuss them in a mature manner and then you will be able to see that the past is not worth dealing with and will be ready to move on. I am the person women always come to to talk about their past boyfriends, breakups, and heartaches because they know I will never repeat what they tell me to anyone. Having all this knowledge of different situations helps me in helping them.
6/14/2009 4:24 PMRe: Re:
Iam not the one who have a problem..only post as my Forum Topic so that we can help other people if they have a problem like this...13 yrs ago I suffered a lot about this situation but now I already move on 100 percent.And (chin up )to the father of my sons coz i stand again IN MY OWN FEET and make my own life without any help of others.ACCEPTANCE IS THE BEST! Thanks Onnie for the visit again hugsssssss!
6/14/2009 8:43 PMRe: Re:
6/15/2009 3:27 AMRe:
its just hard, what i could suggest is help yourself if ever you are broken hearted. go out more with friends and do things you love to do - watch movie, shopping, party just so you forget the pain even temporarily and meet more people.
its ok to cry but dont cry for a very long time. impt is you do something about it. good luck!
its ok to cry but dont cry for a very long time. impt is you do something about it. good luck!
6/15/2009 9:53 AMRe: Re: Re:
ohh thats good news then. yes this is my advice to those broken hearted. :)
6/15/2009 9:36 AMRe: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
-=♥dEn1108
108, u dNt eVen kNow mE, New Zealand
ice cream does help :-)
6/15/2009 9:47 AMRe: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
6/15/2009 9:53 AMRe: Re: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
-=♥dEn1108
108, u dNt eVen kNow mE, New Zealand
haha...ur question is "how to move on in a heartache" not "how to get rid of fat" ;-)
6/15/2009 10:13 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"
-=♥dEn1108
108, u dNt eVen kNow mE, New Zealand
haha...there u go
6/13/2009 10:09 PMRe: "HOW TO MOVE ON IN A HEARTACHE?"